Reasons Why I do not like Relationships

Great, amazing, happy, and exciting, all these feelings are in the beginning of a "perfect" relationship. A few months in and it changes, it isn't the same. The differences come out between two people. I speak from experience of having a few failed relationships. I do not like them because I am a family person and I don't like to make time for boys. I do try relationships, but its always a game to see who leaves first and who ends up hurt. Yes I have been hurt, and yes I have hurt others, but it means it isnt worth the time we thought it was. I do not like to put up with the games that boys like to play because in society now days relationships do not seem that important. Its all a matter of hi and bye. I do have ahate towards relationships, but there are boys out there worth my time and I would make it work. But I am not willing to give relationships another try anytime soon. Its better to be single and live life the way you want to instead of having to check in with someone else. 

The Things I hate!!

I have the worst fears over ALOT of differnt things.

My worst fear is snakes, I am always afraid that a snake is gonna squeeze me to death. Like have you ever seen the snake movies, where the HUGE snake kills people. I am always afraid that is gonna happen. When i go fishing or walking i always stare at the groud and look out for snakes.

Another fear i have is Bugs. I dont like how the tiny bugs are so small and that they crawl everywhere. Like again on movies how bugs can get into your system and kill you. (Note to self i need to stop watching movies).

The Broom!!

So i dont know if you all heard about the Gravity with the Broom. Its where you can stand a broom up and it stays straight up with out you holding it. Check out this youtube nvideohttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-FO6d4FN3kw
I didn't believe this when i heard this so i had to try it out for myself. So me and my roommate did it and it worked.
Well here is the truth about the broom. http://www.theeagle.com/local/The-truth-to-the-broom-trick Im still not sure what to believe about this broom thing but i think its cool that it will stand by its self.

New House!!

So in my busy and stressful life that is going on, i am now all moved in my new house. Me ans d one of the girls i work with at the bar (which is like a sister to me) we are moved in and loving it. We got all moved in and decorated in 2 days. I love that i am now only 2 mins away from my job instead of 15 mins away!!
My parents are alot more supporative now then they were, they have been. And it means alot to me because all along i thought i didn't have their support and it hurt knowing that you didn't have your familys support. But turns out they are accepting the fact that im growing up and on my own. Dont get me wrong I WILL GO HOME FOR HOME COOKED MEALS!!! Cant stop taking that offer up. But i am very happy with living in my new house.
The downfalls. when we moved in the bathreoom was NASTY, the shower was rotting out and so we had to get a new liner in the walls. and the guy came and did that yesterday and so now are bathroom is complete. We dont have our washer and dryer hooked up but its getting there.
Another downfall is the house is old so it makes alot of noises. And it doesn't help when my roommates sister took pics in side the house and we found orbs (which is ghost) and they are everywhere. I dont believe in ghost but i dont like being home alone and hering noises.
All together i am happy to be in my first house and i am very happy. Im up for the adventure and not ready for the bills:(

Top 3 Things I Love!!

So it took me a while to think of something to talk about so i decided to do top 3 things i love.

The first thing I love is my Family. My family is the best ever, my parents separtated when i was 3 and they have made it easy on my life and not rough. They both are very supportive of what i do. I have 7 brothers and sisters. Some of them are my step but i call them my real because that is how our family is. We love eeach other to the fullest. And i know that i have 7 brothers and sisters that will have my back. I  dont know what i would do with out them.

The second thing i love is my Job. I waitress at a bar and i love it. I work 6 days a week and my employess are another family to me. They make work so fun. Some people dont like waiting on people but i dont mide it. I love meeting new people. At work i always walk in with a simile on my face like nothing is wong and i make my job fun.

The Third thing i love is my friends. I have SOO many friends, and i love them all. They are the ones i can have fun with and make my social life amazing. I have a few BEST FRIENDS that are like my sisters. They are the ones that i know i can do anything and they love me for it.

Facebook!! Good or Bad??

I love facebook alot because it keeps me in touch with all my family and friends. Its a great way for people to keep in touch with their classmates and old friends. But some people are using facebook for other reasons. I am only 19 so i have alot of younger people because i live in a small town. But every time i get on there its all DRAMA. Its not like they can put a legal age on here because everyone can lie about their age. So here soon i am about to delete alot of younger people, because i like facebook to keep in touch with my college friends and my family.

Another thing that facebook is good for is that people you are trying to sell things or doing community events its a great way to reach other people. But i still think there could be other ways for people to reach other people. After i have done some research i found out that there have been people murding people because they defriended them or because they updadted their status to be mean to another person. Facebook shouldn't be like that. If you look  at this web site http://news.yahoo.com/facebook-defriending-led-double-murder-police-014442236.html;_ylt=AsYQKg957sUztdaQIxAzF2us0NUE;_ylu=X3oDMTNqY2ZzZjg5BGNjb2RlA2N0LmMEcGtnAzkxNGRhOTY5LWMzNmYtMzM1NS1iNmQ0LTc4ZGYwMmQxMTQ0YwRwb3MDMgRzZWMDbW9zdF9wb3B1bGFyBHZlcgNmZmVmZjg4MC01Mzg4LTExZTEtOTM5OS0zMmYwMDY2YzAxYzk-;_ylg=X3oDMTFvdnRqYzJoBGludGwDdXMEbGFuZwNlbi11cwRwc3RhaWQDBHBzdGNhdANob21lBHB0A3NlY3Rpb25zBHRlc3QD;_ylv=3
you will see that a couple got murded because they defrinded a lady. That is just messed up to me.

I have had a lot of friends and i have seen alot of relationhops get messed up or in fights because they didn't change their profile picture of them or they didn't put there statuse saying "I love him soo much" Its your profile you should be able to do what you want tto do wtih it.

My last thing that i dont like about facebook is that there are alot of people who lie about their profile and try to find little kids this is how people get raped or other crimes happen. So what do you guys think about facebook??

Living on my own!!

Hi everyone, so i am 19 years old almost 20, and i moved back in with my parents. I love them to death but im ready to get out and be on my own. I did live in Joplin for my Freshnan year of College and i came back home for a year to work. Well im ready to get out of the house. Me and my best friend are wanting to get a place together. We have been looking everywhere and are having no luck at all. VERY STRESSFULLL!!!! But anyway i told my mom that i was tired of living at home and i was ready to get back out on my own and she agress but they dont think i can afford it and with school. And then my dad tells me that i cant do it either. It hurts that my family dont believe in me. But im almost 20 and i dont wanna be living at home. I love my family to death but im ready to grow up. Dont you thingk?? Well anyways we are still looking and hopfully we will find something soon. Wish me luck:)

14lb baby boy

So i just watched the news this morning and they said that a 14lb baby boy was born Jan 26, 2012 in Des Moines Iowa. That is crazy. The baby boy is 23 1/2 inches long. They said that his brother was born at 11 or 12 lbs. I didn't believe it at first untill i looked it up and got more info. The baby boy is really cute though. The baby boy's name is Asher Stewardson, he is the largest baby born in Mercy Hospital. I have never been pregnant so i dont know what all you go threw but i bet she was in alot of pain and releived haha. But Im happy for the mom and her new born son and the family.
http://hosted2.ap.org/txdam/54828a5e8d9d48b7ba8b94ba38a9ef22/Article_2012-01-30-Big%20Baby-Iowa/id-fc3cdcbbcc2c475cbb3f78a5a7c3309e

http://www.digtriad.com/video/default.aspx?bctid=1422403577001&odyssey=mod%7Cnewswell%7Ctext%7CFRONTPAGE%7Cfeatured

News in my life!!

So I dont know if anyone lives around where i do but i kinda live close to Independence Mo. Well there was a shooting in the mall not to long ago. Two people were shot but not killed. But anyways I didn't realize that it happend there untill i went to the mall last night at Intependence Mall. YIKES!!! But all was good was on a good aleart. But it is crazy how people can just shoot someone and expecially in a puble place where children  are. Its scary.

This has been the most stressful week for me. As i said in my first blog that i had a amazing boyfriend in the marines. Well not so true out of the blue he left me because he got to lonley and needed a girl there. Messed up big time. And then me trying to figure out online classes and school. And then on top of that i have worked 50 hours this week at my job. So i am hopeing next week gets better for me.

The good thing about this week and that i won 100 buck of lotto, Woo Hoo:) but i hope everyone else is having a good week.

About Me!!:)

Hi everyone, My name is Chelsea Tourtillott, I am 19 years old and I live in a really small town called Rich Hill, MO. It is about 45 minutes away from Harrisonvill, MO if anyone knows where that is. I am a waitress at a Sports Bar & Grill in a town near me. Durrring the summer i lifeguard for a Youth Center. This will be my 6th year lifeguarding and i love it. I have saved 7 people while i have worked there. I have a boyfriend that is in the Marines and he is currently in Japan right now. I am a second year Freshmen here at MSSU. I am studying Elementary Education because i want to be able to teach kids. I am wanting to teach 3rd or 4th grade. I am really looking foward to this class and to getting to know each of you guys. Hope you all have a good semester and good luck!!:)